Category Archives: nostalgia

A wall no one wants built…

I have mentioned before that my wife’s mother lives with us and she has Alzheimer’s. I don’t have to tell anyone with a friend or relative who suffers from this affliction just how devastating this disease can be for the … Continue reading

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“Wake up, Sandy Duncan!”

Jeffery will be turning 13 next month. Our little man is becoming a teenager and try as I may I still have difficulty discerning what he is thinking sometimes. Some days he is best described with the line from the … Continue reading

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A letter to my son on Father’s Day…”You Have Me”

I realize you do not understand the concept of Father’s Day. As far as you’re concerned, as long as I’m around and it’s a day, everyday is Father’s Day. But as you grow and I share in your large or … Continue reading

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Sharing Jeffery…

I recently was requested by a local church group to speak to them about autism. To be more specific, about Jeffery and our experiences dealing with autism through him. One of the leaders of the group is a longtime friend … Continue reading

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Are your feet in the shoot??

As I watch my grandson Georgie play in our backyard on the slide, I go back in time when Jeffery was 4-5 years old and he was playing on the same slide. Georgie climbs up the slide like a cat … Continue reading

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I used to be the BMAMH(Big Man at My House)…

It wasn’t that long ago that I was important. A man of stature and significance. I stood tall and was master of all I surveyed. But yet, I was sympathetic to the little people. I didn’t make a point of … Continue reading

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Life is like a Garden…

     With the recent passing of Leonard Nimoy, this story seems somehow fitting. As mentioned in many previous installments, you never know what will get Jeffery’s interest. In this case, I was making copies of old VCR tapes and … Continue reading

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Halloween Post Game Edition

Now that Halloween has come and gone, it’s time for the post game recap. As we have mentioned previously, Jeffery really doesn’t care that much about Halloween. I believe he understands the concept and he appears to like the costumes … Continue reading

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I KNEW IT!!!

It has been quite a long time since my last entry. I marvel at all the wonderful bloggers that can find something to write about on a daily basis. I have found the more I want to post something, the … Continue reading

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Thanks for Noticin’ Me

I am sick. Not a surprise as this kind of thing happens this time of year. However, it generally doesn’t happen to me. I consider myself fortunate that I seldom get sick. Knock on whatever wood is available… I always … Continue reading

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